You have lived all your life the way your family have and you’ve never really questioned it. Now, as you are coming into your own, you are starting to feel like perhaps it was not the right way to go. You are starting to question the culture, values and beliefs that you grew up with. You are starting to question yourself and your family. Questioning the way things were done was never something that was encouraged. So, by doing so, you feel as if you are betraying your family. But you know that you cannot go back to the way you have been all your life. Being true to yourself is really important to you now.